Finding happiness 

Happiness is a feeling; a deep emotion that comes hard for those with anxiety, those with depression, those who can’t say no to people, those who are stressed for whatever reason…happiness can be tough for a million different reasons. But when you find it, it’s an amazing feeling. 
The definition of Happiness reads as follows: 

1.the quality or state of being happy.

2.good fortune; pleasure; contentment; joy.

So if you’re one that’s struggling with finding joy in your life, I’m sure you’re wondering how to find that happiness again. As a person that struggled with all the above reasons (and still does struggle with some), I’m here to share how I found that happiness in my life again. 

1.prayer 

I pray daily for God to help me in all aspects of my life. One of my specific prayers was help with the anxiety, the depression, and lack of joy in my life. We all know prayer doesn’t bring instant results but prayer still works. Here I am today happy as can be. 

2.grace

Without grace, we are nothing. Without God, we are nothing. Combine God and His grace, we have everything, including happiness. 

3.prayer warriors 

When you ask for special prayer, be picky about who you ask. You want people to pray with you that believe in the same things you believe. You wouldn’t want a stranger’s help with praying that God heals you of a certain disease. Of course you’d rather have someone close to you, someone that knows you. For me, this meant my mom and those she entrusted to join her in these prayers. 

4.my husband 

If you don’t have your husband’s support, finding contentment in your life will be so much more difficult. I thank God that he gave me Luke. I never would’ve gotten through the rough patch I was in without him. Between his personality and God’s work through him, I knew (and always will know) that I’m in great hands. 

5.willpower

You can’t experience happiness unless you truly want it. You have to maintain the willpower and motivation. It’s like starting a healthy lifestyle; it’s pointless if you’re aren’t 150% committed to getting healthy and fit because you’ll eventually slide off the wagon. If you aren’t fully committed to finding your joy, it’s going to make the journey that much more difficult. 

‭‭Psalm‬ ‭37:4‬ ‭”Take delight in the Lord, and he will give you the desires of your heart.”

Proverbs 10:28 “The prospect of the righteous is joy, but the hopes of the wicked come to nothing.”

Romans 15:13 “May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in Him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Hopy Spirit.”


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5 things that make me happy

Everyone experiences happiness in different ways. It does not matter what makes you happy; what matters is being happy. In John 16:24, Jesus says “Ask and you will receive, and your joy will be complete.” God wants us to be truly happy. If you don’t have happiness in your life, dig deep. Dig deep and figure out what would make you happy. I am not referring to material things. If buying something new is what you think will bring true happiness, you did not dig deep enough. Determine these things and ask God for His guidance.

Here are 5 things that make me truly happy:

1.Grace: This one is the most important for me. It took me awhile to find God’s grace and be willing to receive it. Afterwards, my life was changed forever. Yes I still struggle and yes there are those difficult days but without grace, I’d never make it through. Grace brings happiness no matter what is going on in my life.

2.My husband: I’m sure it sounds cliché to some of you, but I really have no idea where I would be without my husband. I surely do not have any desire to find out. He has helped me in ways I never thought were possible and loved me like I never thought someone would.

3.Being a wife: I’m not going to lie. Being a wife isn’t all unicorns and rainbows (no marriage is). But that still does not mean it can’t bring me happiness. There are things I prefer not to do that people associate with married life like fold and put away laundry or cook every single night (thank goodness I’m not stuck in these things and hubby helps me ALOT), but this is not being a wife. To me, some of what being a wife means is being supportive. It means being patient and full of love. It’s dating my husband and continuing to help build our relationship.

4.Family: Although my family is spread out among various places, larger, some are furry and I am now married, it does not mean anyone becomes less important. In fact, I find family to be extremely important in a person’s happiness. Yes we still fight and have times we don’t get along or want to talk to each other but that doesn’t mean we love each other less.

5.Blessings: Every single thing I have is a blessing from God. From my job, my family, our cars, our house, our good health…all of it is because of Him. I thank Him every day for all of my blessings and thank Him for the ones He plans to give me in the future.

“We tend to forget that happiness doesn’t come as a result of getting something we don’t have, but rather of recognizing and appreciating what we do have.”
-Frederick Keonig